Two Paths: Where Do We Go from Here?

The world has changed.  Over the last two months we have seen a response to a crisis unlike anything in modern history.  Plagues, pestilence and disease are not new, but the response to this particular virus is unprecedented.  While there have been regional responses to disease in the past, globalization and social media provide rich soil for world-wide and real time responses. We could speculate as to why this response has been so extreme, but the more important question I believe is where we go from here and what are the standards for determining that path.  

The path forward is a murky one.  Those in leadership have to make difficult choices, with some oversimplifying the choice as choosing between physical well-being over economic well-being.  Unfortunately, however, the choice is not that simple.  One thing that framework suggests is that physical well-being was assured before this crisis began.  It assumes that no one was dying before this virus started sweeping the globe, which is obviously not true.  

In response, leadership asked people to stay at home to protect the vulnerable populations and give the healthcare system space to meet demand.  The goal of social distancing was clear – to flatten the curve and to not overwhelm the healthcare system.  Flattening the curve and protecting the vulnerable are worthy and achievable goals that everyone should strive to help accomplish. But remember, the stated goal was never to eliminate death or sickness.  

Now however, two paths seem to be emerging in the way forward: open up the economy with measures of protection or keep lockdowns in place until safety can be achieved.  In order to achieve safety, the definition of safety has to be determined. What if what is safe for one is not safe for all? Is a vaccine the only hope for reopening society? What if someone doesn’t want the vaccine? Will they be mandated to take it in order to achieve the desired level of safety? These are all difficult questions to wrestle with, but one thing is certain: humans have a 100% death rate; so, I think we would all agree that the goal of zero deaths from any virus is an impossible standard.  So how many deaths are ok? 

Let’s look at the numbers for the flu for some perspective. (Before you start launching tomatoes, I’m not comparing the viruses themselves, just the numbers.)  So even with the very best medicine can offer, a vaccine with about a 40% effective rate[1], and years for people to build up antibodies, as many as 61,000 people die every year in the US of the flu[2].  And yet, each flu season, as a society we carry on with life as normal.  Some people put great effort into decreasing their chances of sickness – increased sanitizing regimes, avoiding large crowds, taking natural supplements or over the counter medications. Some people, however, take no precautions and take their chances with the possibilities of getting the virus.  Even in isolated incidents, some schools have closed for a short period of time for extra sanitation measures if a particularly high outbreak has occurred. Up until now, Americans have generally accepted this scenario of tens of thousands of people dying of one disease as normal, albeit sad, reality. 

The data from this virus is hard to pin down, but here are the things we know:

  • The death projections in the US went from 2.2 million in the worst-case scenarios to about 60,000, or the same level as the flu.[3]  
  • The death numbers are inflated.  Dr. Deborah Birx stated on April 7, “If someone dies with COVID-19, we are counting that,”[4] So a patient who dies of a heart attack c would be listed as a Covid-19 death if it was reasonably assumed the patient had the virus.  
  • Far more people have had the virus than the test numbers reflect, which also makes the death rate lower than once thought.[5]
  • USNS Comfort is no longer needed in NYC and was only used for a small number of patients.  
  • At least two Army Field hospitals that were built have been taken down for lack of need.

With this information in mind, we need to examine the two paths of thought we see in our country – extending lockdowns until a measure of safety can be achieved or reopening life and economies with some social distancing measures.  With either path you run into the question of the value of democracy and individual rights.  How do we make the leap from viruses and vaccines to democracy? 

In democracies and free markets people get something that no other system of government can offer: freedom of choice. A democratic government “derives its powers from the consent of the governed.” American democracy was such a radical idea because for the first time in human history every voice in society would get an equal vote.  This meant that those in leadership weren’t the “elite” of humankind and that riches or birthright didn’t determine who could govern.  It meant that education did not determine the worth of your voice.  The Declaration of Independence boldly declared that every person has the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness, not because the government bestows it upon them, but because it is given to them by their Creator.  Although it took America years to get there, every person has the opportunity to freely choose the laws placed over them through representation. 

The one tricky question in democracy has always what rights belong to the federal government, what rights belong to the state and what rights belong to the individual.  Systems like communism cannot afford to give people liberties like the freedom of speech and the freedom of religion because their system requires compliance. Freedoms and compliances sometimes are at odds, especially when the governed have no voice in their representation. 

So, then what is the role of the government for us as Americans? Is it to keep us safe? Is it to provide for our every need?  It is to care for the poor? Is to heal the sick? I believe Abraham Lincoln said it best, “That government should do for people only what they cannot do better by themselves, and no more.”

We can make decisions about our health. We can make decisions about how and where we worship.  We can make decisions about how we express our opinions and how we treat others.  We do not need the government to regulate these things. There are many things we normally do on our own that only come into question at times of crisis.  Fear drives people to look to a higher power for protection and security, to assure them everything will be ok. 

Thurgood Marshall said, “History teaches that grave threats to liberty often come in times of urgency, when constitutional rights seem too extravagant to endure.”[6]

So, what does this civics lesson have to do with Covid-19? That remains to be seen, but the potential exists for liberties to be taken and never returned if fear is allowed to dominate the conversation.  

What if a state decided that in order to return to work, you had to receive a vaccine? Or that schools would not reopen until a vaccine was available? This is one example of ideas swirling around that would provide a feeling of safety for some, but an abuse of liberty for all.  Defining “essential work” could be another in an extended lockdown.  A hair stylist may not be listed an essential job, but if a single mom of three is dependent on it to feed her children, the hard lines of what is essential and not become more blurred.  

Or what if every flu season a version of the last two months is replayed?

Democracies allow for freedom of choice and depend on the moral compass of the governed. There is no middle ground for democracy.  Enacting restrictions so severe people are forced to comply out of fear is tyranny.  The Civil War, The Great Depression, World War II and 9/11 each had instances of overstep by the government defended by urgency.  Some were rescinded and some were not.  We are at a pivotal point in our nation where we need to be aware of decisions being made and the long-term effects on our freedoms.  

John Adams said, “Our Constitution was made only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate to the government of any other.”[7]

The government cannot legislate morality and kindness.  The government cannot make us think of our neighbor more than ourselves.  Free people have to make that choice.  If they are not governed by the law of God in their hearts, then the government often steps in to enforces laws.  Given the sin nature of man, this is a natural consequence, but this is not how government works best because even at their best, leaders’ actions are never without motives and influence.  This works well for you only if you agree with the motives and influence of the current leaders.  

It is the responsibility of people and the church to step into these roles of caring for others, not the government’s.  As a whole the church has done such a woeful job of this, that now a generation has been brought up to believe that the role of the government is far broader than it needs to be.  

The answer is not more government regulation. The answer is that as a nation need to think of others more than ourselves.  We need to do what is in our power to keep the disease from spreading, but not let our fear overpower common sense.   We need to ask discerning questions and not just take information as it is presented. We need to hold our leaders accountable and ask questions when things seem to not add up.  We need to help our neighbors instead of expecting the government to do it.  We need to make our voices heard when federal government grabs for powers that should lie with the individual or the state, while at the same time obeying rules placed for our good that may just be a temporary discomfort.  

This all takes wisdom and discernment in a time of media sensationalism, political division and self-serving ideologies.  Our leaders need prayer and divine wisdom in the days ahead.  Let’s pray for them and look for ways to serve those around us and put others before ourselves.  


[1] https://www.cdc.gov/flu/vaccines-work/vaccineeffect.htm

[2] https://www.cdc.gov/flu/about/burden/index.html

[3] https://www.foxnews.com/politics/coronavirus-model-estimates-us-deaths-down

[4] https://nypost.com/2020/04/07/feds-classify-all-coronavirus-patient-deaths-as-covid-19-deaths/

[5] https://www.dailywire.com/news/l-a-county-study-antibody-testing-suggests-covid-19-infections-far-more-widespread-death-rate-much-lower-than-thought?fbclid=IwAR115jFPmkiSEJ3v9e9COWuS5fdP785VBcXCU4fZmzWGz4pEZIPDfUsyhwg

[6] https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/490409-history-teaches-that-grave-threats-to-liberty-often-come-in

[7] https://www.brainyquote.com/authors/john-adams-quotes

Two Rules to Live By

I struggle with hard and fast rules.  I realize this seems totally contrary to the title of this post and my overall personality.  Left to its natural state my brain functions at two speeds: all or nothing.  Either I let the school room exist in a state of complete disaster (thank you three-year old boy) or the books are in Dewy Decimal order, lined perfectly ½ inch from the lip of the shelf.  The bathrooms are either “kid cleaned” or “mom with a toothbrush” cleaned.  I struggle anywhere in between.  I have had to put significant work into curbing this tendency because often there is simply not enough time for “all,” and families can’t function well in “nothing.” 

So, when it comes to rules to live by, I have to be careful.  If Jesus can narrow the entire Law into two commandments, I figure that’s a pretty good plumb line of how many my brain can handle.  

Rule #1 – No Yard Sales

I love a good deal and I try not to allow clutter to pile up in my home, so why no yard sales? The principle – I never want to accumulate enough unwanted stuff that would justify having a yard sale.  When you move every few years and literally have to find a home for every item you own, it pays to keep things as light and clutter free as possible.  I do this by limiting household purchases to stuff that we actually need, therefore reducing things that will one day end up in the donation bin.  Decorating with timeless fabrics and pieces and passing clothes down between children reduces some of our need to purchase new things.  This doesn’t mean I don’t shop, but it does mean I try to only shop with a purpose.  (Ok, I will admit it: I don’t love shopping anyway.) When we trek through stores like IKEA, we stick to the list, which is beneficial for the budget as well. Shopping less for ourselves allows us more resources to be generous to others.

Even if you love to shop and change decorations up often, this rule can still apply to you, you just have to be more diligent to not let things pile up. I keep two donation boxes in our house.  One for clothes and one for other items.  When the box is full, it leaves the house.  While I love to pass our kids’ clothes to friends if possible, I love finding an organization with a clothing closet for foster families.  For larger furniture, I use Facebook or Craigslist to get them out of the house quickly. 

When an overseas move and the “no more babies” stage hit our house at the same time, I will admit that I broke this rule and did a major purge.  Seasons change that bring about larger purges, but regularly having an excess of unwanted items could be a sign of a bringing too much into your home in the first place. 

Rule #2 – Don’t Buy New Pants

While I’ve already admitted my distain for shopping, even I must buy new pants on occasion! The principle – as an adult, outside of major life changes, the need for a new pants size is a warning sign.  (Hear me child-birthing age mamas – I’m not talking to you.  Birthing babies is a gift and one day you will be out of the yo-yo stage. Have grace for yourself and your body.) 

“We don’t buy new pant” is an often-heard mantra in my home inspired by my dad.  He’s sixty-four-years old and has worn the same size pants for my entire life. 

For most of us, if we are careful to put healthy food into our bodies and careful to carve out time to require physical activities of our bodies, this rule isn’t too hard to follow.  Please take these words with the grace that I give them – this is not a place of shame or discouragement.  There are multiple factors, including genes, that play into this.  This is just a guiding principle to say that for most of us, if we need to buy new pants, we need to ask ourselves why.  Do we want to allow ourselves to mindlessly and consistently move up pants sizes or do we want to stop and examine the habits that may be contributing? 

I hop on my bathroom scale every morning, normally under the rolling eyes of my husband. The daily scale reading can be brutal.  Scales, or even BMI tests, are tough critics – mercy and grace are rarely extended for small indulgences. Jeans, on the other hand, are like an old friend.  They give us grace but will give us truth when we really need it. They will forgive a milkshake or two, PMS or a few skipped workouts.  It is a decent plumb line for overall health and can be a reason for discouragement or celebration depending on your daily habits.  Ask any woman who has had a baby – it is a day of celebration when you can fit into your normal jeans again! 

These two rules hold me accountable in many areas of my life.  With just two, they are easy to remember, apply and teach to my children.  What are your rules to live by?